Evelyn Bonar

The story

A "Celebration of a Life" Ceremony

was held on Saturday March 3rd, 2018

at Woodsedge Community Church

25333 Gosling Rd, Spring, TX 77389

Service begins at 11:00AM

with a reception afterwards in the church cafe

Memory wall

66 tributes have been left in memory of Evelyn Bonar.

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  🕯 Mom I love you be my guiding light. I have stumble in areas but also succeed. Wrap me in your arms and make me feel at home.

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  🕯 I Love you mom!

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  🕯 It's been awhile but here is an update. It's been hot here in Illinois. Over a hundred a couple weeks ago. It's still in the upper 90's. I had been real because Gerry Bonar is still sick and in the hospital. He's doing slightly better now. I went to see a psychiatrist and he prescribed me some medicine that has really been helping. I feel so much better now. It's like the heaviness is gone. Also he was concerned about my weight so he had me tested for thyroid problems. The bad news is I have one but the good news is that's why I haven't been losing weight. I was so hard on myself but now I know what's going on and can get treated. I wasn't published by that magazine but I'm going to try another one I'm not going to give up. I love you mom. I admire you for not giving up when things got bad.

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  Miss you today. Happy birthday hope you are dancing it up, up there. The pictures are your gifts and card.

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  Mom, I'm here in Las Vegas visiting Gerry because he has been sick. I made these memorial stones with your initials on them. They say E.T.. I have spread them around different places I think you'd like. That way I a physical representation of you is there. Or at least was there at one time. Now you have many resting spots. I placed stones for you in a Garden in Munster, IN. I know you never lived there but it is a pretty garden with lots of butterflies nest there. I think you would like seeing those butterflies. I hope you see them all the time where you are. I also put out some stones here in Las Vegas. I placed some stones where the Nevada Palace used to be. I know that was one of the places you used to love going to. I also put stones at the drive in movies since we used to go there a lot. You also have a tree dedicated to you by the insurance company in the Davy Crockett National Forrest in Lufkin.

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  🕯 Also Chris is doing really well. He has adjusted to the change and Darla is doing a good job taking care of him. Donna and Gerry have been more involved lately too which is a good thing. I send Chris packages for the holidays so he still gets things like you used to do for him. Blake got a new job and I'm hopping it will help him to recover. I think you know what I mean. I love you so much mom.

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  This is my birthday video to you.

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  🕯 Mom, I also went to visit the house behind Sam's Town. I know you don't like that house but some of my best memories were in that house. Love you mom

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  Watched this today thought of you.

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  It is still around and running.

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  This is the present I would have given to you for your birthday mom. I know how much you loved her.

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  🕯 Mom, I had a really good day celebrating it with you. Watching romantic comedies just like we always used too. Happy mothers day mom.

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  Mom, I wrote an article about God's love and submitted it to a women's Christian magazine. They are considering publishing it. I'm super excited just thought you should know.

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  🕯 Happy Birthday Mom.

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  🕯 Mom, I have been having a hard time lately. Not everyone understands how much you meant to me and the very special person I know you to be. But I got a second job. I'm a banquet server. I work weddings and parties. I really enjoy it and it helps me to not be sad. I get to take part in peoples special moments. Being around others having fun reminds me their is joy in the world and makes me want to be happy. It also helps to know there are others dealing with things just like I am. I love you mom. I know you would have like me having this job too.

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  Mom just thought you should know all your kids are happy today. Chris, Devin, Delette, and I think Blake are happy today.

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  I miss you so much mom. I wish you could hug me today.

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  I also think Devin was going to spread your ashes at sea when he goes on a cruise. So I think there is a part of you there too. So just like when you were alive you have been everywhere.

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  Mom, I lost the baby and now it gets to be with you. Please help me to be strong.

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  To you mom a garden for you!

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  Wishing you a happy mothers day. Hope you are enjoying things where you are.

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  🕯 Mom, I was having a rough day the other day. I felt you sent me those messages in those cards. For that I'm grateful. Thank you so much just for being there for me. It's good to know how much you love and care about me. I loved the cards so I bought them. I'm going to put them in a special memory box I make for you. Love you, mom!

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  🕯 I love you and miss you mom.

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  We used to go here all the time mom. I remember watching Free Willie here and watching the plains come in.

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  🕯 Love you mom

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  Momma some good news. I think I would be good at Wedding planning so I applied to a company to intern. The Lady told me to check back in August to do a face to face interview with her. Jtst wanted to share with you.

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  Us at the lake

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  Home

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  🕯 Mom, I love you. I hope you are so happy in heaven. I can't imagine what you are seeing up there.

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  Love you mom thinking of you.

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  🕯 Mom, Merry Christmas! I had a good Christmas I went to see a play of Charlie Brown Christmas. I talked to Chris and he had a good Christmas too. I had Santa bring him a purple shirt.

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  Butterfly for you this one was found outside my house

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  🕯 Mom, I had so much fun today. I saw the play how the Grinch Stole Christmas, then took pictures downtown, and ate pizza at our favorite restaurant. Then when we got home we popped holiday crackers. Those are the things they have in Canada. That Grandma and Grandpa Bonar had at their house for the holidays. They are cylinders that make a pop sound when you pull them open. Inside they have prizes, a joke, and a paper crown. It was fun to pop them and remember the fun of it. Love you, mom, just thought I'd let you know how my day went.

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  Here is the gift I would have got for you.

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  Thanksgiving card. Hope you are enjoying magical moments in heaven today.

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  Your favorite place to go many happy memories here.

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  Momma Glad you arent hear to see the craziness going on in America right now. I love you and miss you very much.

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  🕯 I miss you today mom. This weekend is hot in the 90"s but its nice after being cold for so long. I know it must be hot in Houston now. I love you mom. I think about you all the time.

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  Mom, I love and miss you. There is so much to tell you. I left Clayton. At one point in time I was seeing 4 men. Now I am focused on one very sweet man. My job isn't treating me well. I hope I can find another one. I got a job as a wedding assistant. I am on break from that job for now. I broke my foot. There is just a lot. I love you mom. Help me on your end guide me to where I should go! Love you lots!

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  Momma, There is so much that has happened. I left Clayton. I finally stood up for myself and left. I am doing okay. I have a job, a place to live, and an internship on the horizon. I am going to take a break from men though. It's just too much blah. I want a man that can take care of himself. Love you mom.

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  🕯 A candle was lit in memory.

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  Fireflies at night peaceful and beautiful for you what you would have liked.

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  Mom, it my birthday today. Love you. Miss you.

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  Mom I miss you. I'm glad your not around for this virus.

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  Great story, So inspired me. Thank you for sharing Vegus168

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  A Christmas card for you Mom!

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  Mom, Happy Birthday! To celebrate, I went to the water lantern festival. I released a lantern in your honor. It was great. There were stories, music, and at the end of the night fireworks over Navy pier.

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  🕯 Mom, I love you. I found out I am pregnant. Never realized how scary it is to be a mom. Know that your granchild will know all about you. Please watch over my child from where you are.

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  Your presents

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  I love you mom. I miss you with what is going on I wish I could hug you. Miss you so much.

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  🕯 I love you mom!

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  Thinking of you today mom and always

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