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Services were held on January 12, 2015 at St. Joachims Catholic Church, Hayward, CA.
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32 tributes have been left in memory of Gordon Quarry.
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Dad, I really miss you man! Jerry, I miss you too! I wish you could find a way to talk to me, I miss that the most. I miss you Bro! You have been gone for almost 7 months.
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Long time ago Jen and Bek
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Happy Birthday Dad! Miss You!!! Love your Son Erik!
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Jessye and V with Grandpa
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Hey dad, I miss you man, more than you know. We love it here in Ohio. We have three homes now and one is a rental. Jr., moved back to California and Ron and maybe mike are going to relocate here, too. I only wish Jerry was here, too. I miss him too. I only wish more brothers would come here to talk to you. Have a good day, dad!! Love ya
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I miss you and Jerry more than anyone could know, it all happened so fast and permanent, and we must carry on. Mom, is 81 now and going strong and do not worry I am taking care of her. She misses you both very much.
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I love you man, had a good cry today for both of you. 12/07/2020
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Hello Dad, Ma packed up the house and sold it because Hayward did not exist anymore for any of us, especially without you and Jerry, plus sweet little Debra, too. We bought a house in Ohio near grandpa's birth place by the Mad river. Everything got so expensive in Hayward and the bills piled up, we had to sell and move. So far it is nice. I will get back to you soon. It is 05/19/2018 I am sure you would have agreed with her decision, it was right.
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Hello dad! I cannot believe you have been gone for a year already. This totally sucks. Ma had a mass for you today, we all miss you. I still think about the day you left us and it still hurts. I think about that shitty month of December the year before last all the time. Nobody even takes the time to come here anymore, me included, but I do think of you everyday. If there really is a heaven and I am sure you would be there, I wish you could find a way to let me know, cause right now I believe the church is full of it. Sure would be nice to know if we get to take all of our memories with us instead of darkness and finality.
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I posted my last message on 09/07/2020 at 12:42 pm easter
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Hello dad, we had a tough time without you this thanksgiving. It is just not the same without you. I cant't believe how much life sucks since we can't enjoy each other forever. I guess Depeche Mode is right, god does have a sick sense of humor. Nobody even picked names, this year, because everything is in dis-array since you have gone. I miss you, man
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I miss you and Jerry, I love both of you for ever. Sorry I missed your birthdays, I love you guys posted on 11/10/2020
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I cannot believe you passed over 7 months ago. Your passing was very traumatic more so to the one's who witnessed all your suffering and how hard it was on us. I still think about you everyday and come to this website daily just to remember you. Thank you for being a good father, I miss you!
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Dad, I still miss you man. Oh man Jerry still hurts, I hope he is with you and this god thing is true. Oh and Debra, too. Man it feels awful still. I so wish people could live for ever. I sure hope ma will break 90. She bought a new car anyways, we have a new dog her name is Sophie, she was abused but not anymore she is loved.
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Hello Dad, been gone too long. As you probably already know if heaven is really real. Jerry left us too and it hurts so much. Just ripped away from us and now we all feel fragile. I still miss you, man. Two damn years in a row, too much pain.
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Hello Dad, happy birthday! I still can't believe you are gone, man I miss you. I never forget all your caring and love. Thanks!
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Hey Dad, Happy Thanksgiving!! Jerry you too, man!! Everybody loves both of you and miss you so much and man it still hurts. 11/28/2019
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Dad, I really miss you, Jerry left us too soon, I never ever thought about you or anybody in this family leaving us. It still hurts almost as much as the day you left. I really miss you both! I know the others miss you as well, but do not come here to see you. It is a good thing that nobody died this time around a third year in a row would have been just awful. It sure was painful to lose little Debra, too.
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I really miss you now that the democrats have become communist and do not care about their voters. Donald Trump is president and really has done a good job, he cares about Americans and the Democrats do not, even mom agrees. I think when Trump wins his second term we are facing a new civil war, I wish you and Jerry were here to help. I really could use your wisdom right now
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Good Morning Dad and Jerry, Happy Birthday to both of you!! We miss you so much. We still have to go to Mad river to find grandpa's family, love you!! 11/03/2019
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